“Breakthrough”: that moment when you say; "I have had enough I am
not going to take it anymore!"
It is both liberating and isolating!
Those who do not understand the why and the how you are changing see a
stranger has emerged!
Which is why “break-throughs” are often called breakdowns; because it is
simpler to identify you as crazy rather than accepting that you have grown
tired of being abused and put down.
“Break throughs” happen when you are so tired of being mistreated that
you are willing to do the hard work of changing yourself and your false core
beliefs come up for review! They happen
when you are tired enough of being mistreated and silently accepting
mistreatment in order to “not rock the boat”’ that you are willing to face the
rejection that comes with saying NO MORE.
“Break throughs” change you from the inside out, you change your beliefs
about your self-worth and you create boundaries so that you stop being
compliant and easy going and you begin to stand up for yourself, and hold
people accountable for their negative and hurtful actions.
“Break throughs” help you to see clearly those people who only tolerated
you in their lives because of your usefulness to them; for whom saying “I love
you” while treating you badly, was a way of keeping you trapped in
relationships that feed their ego.
“Break throughs” are painful for they reveal truths that a part of you
suspected (those moments when you felt unlovable or unworthy) but for the first
time you see those truths revealed in all their ugliness and you grieve for
what you thought you had but which turned out to be a lie.
“Break throughs” liberate you because you no longer cling to
relationships that are based on false assumptions of caring.
“Break throughs” isolate you because the moment you no longer function
as a “need fulfiller” to the users, they dump you.
Renate Dundys Marrello
2018 – 05 – 28
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